The complication and confusion of any relationship begin with this word. The word technically means the gap. It means absolutely nothing.But it can make or break a relationship. Every relationship needs the right amount of space. The quantity differs and determines the success of every relationship. I was never smart to understand the nuances of it. How I show that I care and still not bother them every hour or so? How do I tell a person that they are suffocating me without hurting their emotions? I never knew. Sometimes it is so complicated that I just let it go. Even parents have a difficult time understanding it and pamper or ignore the children. God is not an exception to this game. He sometimes blesses you in abundance or just lets you fend on your own. I just wish I had a guide to this universal drama. Still, It is just luck and common sense. Even instincts fail. Even as I work hard to make it happen. The ultimate question always remains, Is it really worth it?
Every person we meet creates an impact on us. The way the impact works is quite surprising. Sometimes the impact created by a stranger is more than the impact by a close friend. I always consider life as a block of coal or a big piece of rock. The journey from Coal to diamond or Rock to sculpture takes a lot of time and can also be painful. It does not happen with a single person or with a single incidence. The conversation process is continuous and can happen till our last breath. We get better and better with age and experience. I have never managed to understand when a person reaches his best. Maybe the level is unattainable. Still changes, both ups and downs happen throughout our lives. I remember an innocent hyper girl who wore sensitivity on her sleeve. The smallest spark was enough to set her on fire. She was on the extreme of emotions. The emotions can range from Happiness, sorrow, loneliness and anger. Still the emotions controlled her and stole her sleep many nights.
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